Respect

  Does this means that even we that are not happy with one's comment or instruction that we must follow to what the person says.

I have lots of unhappy moments with my elders, especially brother in law, who shows his authority around
the house. My first and lasting impression was at the home of my uncle, where my hubby grandmother was there in front of everyone, friends, relative, he shout at me " why didnt you call grandmother" being a new family member, i was so embarrassed, felt like the whole world was staring at me. Was just about to shed a tear, when my hubby grandmother answer him back for me "she earlier called me already" this was one Lady i will always remember her kind words, that gave me some RESPECT.

I love her even more when she announced to everyone that i gave her some pocket money, ha ha ha , she made my day ( i shy shy loh)

Aunty Toh,  she one Lady I love also, but yet afraid of her. She was always there for me, when anyone steps on my toe. How i wish i can take care of her, but she will was be in my heart for the RESPECT she has for me.

Some friends and relative who have RESPECT for me, i will always have a place in my heart for them.

Up and downs of  life is also due to RESPECT for one's opinion, one's desire to do what they want.

Lets live our own life the way we want, Sometime we try to relive our life's through someone's else life is not so great.

I have always tried to relive my life through my children, i am glad they did not follow me. HAPPY for them that they can take care of themselves.

So in the event i should leave this world early. I am sure they will be there for each other through thick and
thin. BLOOD IS THICKER THAT WATER  is what i have always told them.

TAKE CARE. HAVE A GREAT DAY