Respect

  Does this means that even we that are not happy with one's comment or instruction that we must follow to what the person says.

I have lots of unhappy moments with my elders, especially brother in law, who shows his authority around
the house. My first and lasting impression was at the home of my uncle, where my hubby grandmother was there in front of everyone, friends, relative, he shout at me " why didnt you call grandmother" being a new family member, i was so embarrassed, felt like the whole world was staring at me. Was just about to shed a tear, when my hubby grandmother answer him back for me "she earlier called me already" this was one Lady i will always remember her kind words, that gave me some RESPECT.

I love her even more when she announced to everyone that i gave her some pocket money, ha ha ha , she made my day ( i shy shy loh)

Aunty Toh,  she one Lady I love also, but yet afraid of her. She was always there for me, when anyone steps on my toe. How i wish i can take care of her, but she will was be in my heart for the RESPECT she has for me.

Some friends and relative who have RESPECT for me, i will always have a place in my heart for them.

Up and downs of  life is also due to RESPECT for one's opinion, one's desire to do what they want.

Lets live our own life the way we want, Sometime we try to relive our life's through someone's else life is not so great.

I have always tried to relive my life through my children, i am glad they did not follow me. HAPPY for them that they can take care of themselves.

So in the event i should leave this world early. I am sure they will be there for each other through thick and
thin. BLOOD IS THICKER THAT WATER  is what i have always told them.

TAKE CARE. HAVE A GREAT DAY

BROTHERS

Yes, Brothers 5 big one I have and 2 younger then me. The big one are so protective and the younger one are
so cute.

My elders brother i have no complain he does not shout or scold me so much in my younger days, its only
after i got marriage he was so concern about me, will drop to to see me when he can.

As for my other brothers they are around, just and when nothing much and they do note interfere with whate
i do. It only after may marriage my 2nd brother was they for me, when i went for my operation on my wrist
from there i know he cares for me. Now he is not around anymore for me. I still miss him cause he cared for
me when i need someone to be there for me.

As for my third brother, that is another long story the only one who really cares for the whole family, just
love him, he tried everything to guide me but some how , he did not succeed, i have always disappointed
him in my studies, BUT  he was the one who was, is, always tried to help me out. just a short memory of his kindness, concern and i do love him for he always tried to help me when ever he can.

So this morning post is dedicated to my brothers, YOU ARE GREAT IN YOUR HEART, but you my cushion when ever i fall you are there, thank you for letting me make my own decision whether good or bad.

LOVE YOU MY DEAR BROTHERS

Money is not Everything

Got up thinking, Why is Money so important? Yes it will make our life wonderful, great and powerful.

But i have always have a spot in my mind that Money is not everything. There are so many things that are great than money...Is it Love...i am still wondering...

Love is so strong i.e. GOD'S LOVE so I still think that Love is greater than Money.

I have not seen much in life as i live in a coconut shell but what i see and what i feel makes me think that Love have no boundaries.

SO LOVE IS STILL MY POWER, LIFE because my love for my children without them, I am lost.:)

Pretty Lady

Yes it was a great and wonderful weekend but was spoiled by a final call that was uncalled for.

There were up and down in our friendship, fights, lots of misunderstanding, misinformation, third party intervention, yet i was always try to be there for her.

My love for her, i cannot explain, but i somehow feels for her. Money i dont have much but would like and love to welcome in my world if only she is not too hard on herself.

I love you my friend and will TRY to be be there for you if i can. Whether its RM20.00 or 2Million.

our friendship even i cannot explain why, or what we have that I cannot say NO to you.

Take care, do not put your nose in where it is not required. Your WONDERFUL HUSBAND is all you need and which i will always admire.

Count your blessings. His love for you is so great that NOTHING SHOULD EVER bother you.